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Finally, a Law That Says Take It Down.

For too long, victims of digital exploitation, especially those whose images were shared without their consent, have been told to simply deal with it. To live with the shame, the trauma, and the often life-altering consequences of something they never agreed to share. The pain was dismissed, the platforms were silent, and the damage was permanent.

Not anymore.

In a rare and welcome show of bipartisanship, President Trump has signed the “Take It Down Act” into law, marking a turning point in the fight to protect people from digital exploitation. While the headlines might skim the surface, the impact of this law runs deep and it’s about time.

Why This Matters

This law addresses a dark and often overlooked corner of the internet, that being the non-consensual sharing of intimate images and other forms of digital abuse. These are not isolated incidents. They are widespread, damaging, and have been largely ignored by legislation and tech platforms alike, until now.

Victims of digital exploitation often face an impossible battle. Once something is online, it spreads fast and lives forever. The legal recourse has been murky, the reporting process inconsistent, and the emotional toll immeasurable. Careers have been destroyed. Relationships have been lost. Reputations have been irreparably damaged.

This isn’t just about privacy, it’s about human dignity.

What the Law Does

The Take It Down Act aims to hold platforms accountable and provide a pathway for victims to have harmful content removed swiftly and without the burden of navigating a confusing system. It empowers individuals who have been exploited to say “enough” and be heard.

Just as importantly, it sends a message: We see you. We believe you. We’re doing something about it.

A Cultural Shift, Too

The law itself is a huge step, but it also signals something larger and that is a cultural shift in how we treat digital spaces and the people who navigate them. This law won’t fix everything, but it cracks the door open to further protections, better education, and ideally, a future where consent and respect aren’t optional in online interactions.

What You Can Do

If you’ve ever shared something online, this applies to you. If you’ve ever posted a photo, forwarded a video, or commented on someone else’s life, this law is a reminder that behind every screen is a human being with real emotions, real consequences, and real rights.

Let’s raise our standards, not just legally, but morally.

Digital literacy isn’t just for the next generation. It’s for all of us, right now.

We may not be able to reverse the damage already done, but we can build a future where “take it down” isn’t a desperate plea, it’s an immediate, unquestioned action.

PS The Social Media Association has always promoted best practices for ethical and respectful social media use.

You can learn more about their work, and how to become part of the solution, at TheSocialMediaAssociation.com.

May 28, 2025 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Why I’m Taking Time Off and Why You Should Too

When was the last time you stepped away, not just from your work, but from the noise, the scroll, the meetings, and the million things tugging at your sleeve?

For me, it’s right now. I’m packing my bags for a four-night getaway to Atlantic City, and this time, I’m not sneaking in a single webinar or phone call.

No “just checking in” emails. No multitasking from a hotel desk. Just me, the ocean air, a couple of classic boardwalk strolls, and a head ready to be filled not with noise, but with clarity.

Because here’s what I’ve learned as a successful woman who’s been through a few reinventions (and helped others through theirs): Real growth requires real space.

I’m not talking about a quick lunch break or a Sunday where you half-work while pretending you’re resting. I mean full-on, intentional time off to reflect, reimagine, and reconnect with what matters most.

This is where imagination gets to play again. Where ideas stretch out and breathe. And for me, it’s where I’m going to shape my next-level vision, complete with a fresh elevator pitch and a one-page business plan I can feel in my bones.

Time Away is a Power Move

I know the hustle mindset. I know what it feels like to say, “I’ll rest when I’m done.” But done never comes. There’s always another client, another deadline, another problem to solve. But clarity? That only comes when you pause.

For those of us navigating the later chapters of our careers or choosing to rewrite the story entirely, it’s not about doing more. It’s about doing what matters. And sometimes, the only way to hear that whisper of what matters is to step away from the shouting.

Creativity Needs Breathing Room

You want fresh ideas? Stop standing in stale air.

When we give ourselves space, magic happens. We remember why we started. We reconnect with our own boldness. And we imagine without borders. I’ve done these enough times to know that when I unplug, I come back reignited and unstoppable. I’m not looking to maintain, I’m here to elevate. And sometimes, that requires a beach, a notebook, and a brain that’s not buzzing with to-dos.

Resetting with Purpose

I’ve committed to clearing my plate before I go. No mental baggage allowed on this trip. That’s part of the ritual too, closing the loops so you can open new ones.

When I return, I want to walk through my door with a crisp, confident introduction that reflects who I am now and not who I was three years ago. I want a one-page business plan that lights me up and leads the way forward. Not just words on paper, but a direction that makes me sit up straighter and walk a little taller.

Aging Isn’t Slowing Down. It’s Leveling Up.

As an Aging Icon, I know what it means to rise again and again. Reinvention isn’t a trend. It’s a strategy. And reflection is the most overlooked tool in the box.

Here’s my advice: take the break. Book the hotel. Leave the laptop closed. Let your imagination ride shotgun. Because when you return, you’ll bring back something bigger than rest. You’ll bring back vision.

And vision is what iconic women are made of.

See you on the other side, refreshed, recalibrated, and ready to roar.

May 14, 2025 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Never Stop Learning, The Key to a Lifetime of Growth and Impact

I am honored to receive Pulse’s Lifetime Achievement Award for my work as a patient advocate, mentor, and educator. (https://www.pulsecenterforpatientsafety.org/fcpa)

It’s a humbling recognition of decades spent helping individuals navigate the healthcare system and empowering professionals in our field. But as I step onto that stage, I am not standing still. In fact, I am attending this two-day training because I believe that learning never stops, regardless of age, experience, or accolades.

Many might ask, “Why continue training when you’ve already achieved so much?” The answer is simple. I do it to stay relevant, engaged, and vibrant in both my professional and personal life.

Learning is not just about acquiring new skills; it’s about keeping our minds sharp, expanding our perspectives, and fostering deeper connections with the world around us.

I have spent my career challenging the idea that limitations are set in stone. My book, Aging Icon, was born from this philosophy. Just as I refuse to accept dead ends for my clients, I refuse to accept that I have learned everything there is to know in my field. Every training, every conversation, and every piece of new knowledge adds to my ability to serve others.

The world of healthcare is constantly evolving. New policies, technologies, and treatments emerge every day. If we stop learning, we fall behind and when you’re in the business of advocating for others, falling behind isn’t an option.

Attending training sessions, engaging with new ideas, and collaborating with the next generation of patient advocates ensures that I can continue to provide the best guidance possible.

But beyond professional growth, continuous learning keeps me young in spirit. It introduces me to new people, fresh perspectives, and unexpected opportunities. It fosters curiosity, which in turn keeps life exciting. When we open ourselves up to learning, we expand not just our skill set but also our relationships, our communities, and our world.

Receiving a Lifetime Achievement Award is not a signal to slow down, it’s a moment to celebrate, reflect, and then push forward with renewed purpose. I encourage everyone, no matter where they are in their journey, to seek knowledge, embrace new experiences, and never stop asking, “what else can I learn” because when you stay curious, you stay engaged. When you stay engaged, you stay young. And when you keep learning, you keep making an impact.

March 12, 2025 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Navigating the Dual Role of Caregiver and Solopreneur

As a solopreneur, you already know the challenges of juggling multiple roles, including marketer, salesperson, service provider, and financial manager. But when life adds another layer to your responsibilities, such as caring for aging parents, the balancing act can become overwhelming. This dual role is a reality for many, and while it may feel daunting, it’s possible to handle your work, meet your personal responsibilities, and maintain your peace of mind. With thoughtful planning and the right strategies, you can thrive in both arenas.

Here are some tips to help you manage this delicate balance:

Plan Proactively

It’s not always possible but the best way to prepare for caregiving is to plan before an acute need arises. Research resources in your area, such as home care services, adult day programs, and eldercare advisors. If possible, having a roadmap in place will save time and reduce stress when immediate decisions are required, especially if you know the health situation is progressive.

Additionally, consider:

  • Creating a financial plan to address potential costs.
  • Compiling important documents like medical records, power of attorney, and advance directives.
  • Identifying a support network of friends, family, or professional caregivers who can step in when needed.
  • Talking openly with your parents about their preferences, financial situation, and healthcare needs.

Set Boundaries

Boundaries are essential for maintaining sanity. Clearly define when you are working and when you are available for caregiving duties. Share this schedule with your parents and any other involved parties. While emergencies may arise, having a routine helps create structure for everyone involved.

Leverage Technology

Technology can be a lifesaver when managing dual responsibilities. Use scheduling apps to organize your day, set reminders for medical appointments, and track your work tasks. Video calling platforms make it easy to stay connected with healthcare providers and support networks. Additionally, wearable devices and smart home tools can help monitor your parent’s well-being, giving you peace of mind even when you’re not physically present.

Outsource When Possible

As a solopreneur, you might feel like you need to do everything yourself but that’s simply not sustainable. Delegate tasks in your business by hiring virtual assistants, freelancers, or part-time help. Similarly, seek out caregiving assistance. This could be in the form of professional home care, meal delivery services, or community support programs. Remember, outsourcing isn’t a sign of failure, it’s a strategy for managing priorities effectively.

Practice Self-Care

It’s easy to lose sight of your own needs when you’re focused on others. However, neglecting self-care can lead to burnout, which serves no one. Make time for activities that recharge you, whether it’s exercise, meditation, hobbies, or simply spending quality time with loved ones. Eating well, staying hydrated, and getting enough sleep are non-negotiables. If you’re struggling, consider speaking with a therapist or joining a caregiver support group.

Communicate Openly

Transparency is key in managing expectations with your parents, clients, and support system. Let your clients know if you’ll need more flexible deadlines or reduced availability during certain times. Most people are understanding when you communicate your situation honestly. Similarly, keep open lines of communication with your parents about what you can and cannot do.

Seek Community Support

You don’t have to navigate this situation alone. Reach out to local organizations, religious groups, or online communities for resources and emotional support. Networking with others in similar situations can provide valuable advice and a sense of camaraderie.

Focus on Quality, Not Quantity

When time is limited, focus on delivering high-quality work rather than overcommitting. Prioritize tasks that bring the most value to your business. This might mean streamlining your offerings or temporarily scaling back on less profitable ventures.

Embrace Flexibility

Life with aging parents is unpredictable. Accept that your schedule may change and build in flexibility where possible. For example, reserve blocks of time in your calendar for unexpected caregiving needs, or work in shorter, focused sprints to accommodate interruptions.

Acknowledge Your Efforts

Finally, recognize that you’re doing an extraordinary job managing two demanding roles. Celebrate small wins, and don’t be too hard on yourself if everything doesn’t go perfectly. Caring for a loved one is an act of deep love and commitment and balancing it with running your business is no small feat.

Being a solopreneur and a caregiver is challenging, but it’s also an opportunity to demonstrate resilience, creativity, and compassion. Remember, you’re not alone, and there are resources and strategies to help you maintain your peace of mind while taking care of both your professional and personal commitments.

January 15, 2025 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Sometimes there isn’t any help.

The past few months have been busy with helping one of our favorite clients move. We set up a new blog for BeverlyTaylorJDL at worpress. Beverly just turned 86. We are going through everything she wants to have preserved and getting prices for things that will be sold to free up some space.

Peter is also moving, back to New Hampshire. He is recovering from knee surgery and can now live independently. We’ll be helping him pack up over the Labor Day holiday.

We’ve arranged for White Glove Consulting to help Arnold get the social services he needs, after a year of rejections and setbacks.

It’s great when you can help someone and accomplish what you set out to do. But sometimes, you just have to recognize that nothing more can be done. Issues related to mental health are something we’ve only dealt with in regards to seniors, dementia, Alzheimer’s, hoarding and personality changes. For the past few months, we’ve been helping a younger patient find health services. She came to us complaining of chronic fatigue and insomnia. As usual, we started with getting a medical clearance. Then, we arranged for a psycho-social exam for housing. We’ve gained an appreciation of the adult home business. They are truly dedicated people. The psychological assessment opened up a new diagnosis that changed our approach entirely. We were able to find many services that would have helped the patient. However, in our journey with her we found that she had a history of resistance to care and substance abuse. She was also under the influence of people who enabled her behavior.

After discussions with the psychiatrists, attorneys, the Department of Health, Abuse Victim Advocates and Mental Health Specialists we decided to end her services. This was a very difficult decision and one that included her family. They assured us that many had tried to help, but it was time to throw in the towel. The family will now move towards appointing a legal guardian. I’ve been told that we did help in many ways, just maybe not in the way we hoped.

August 23, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , | Leave a comment

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